Perms are Making a Comeback in 2017? How did I miss this?

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Any of you who were around in the 80s surely remember the perm craze. The bigger the better and everyone who was anyone seemed to be doing it from celebrities to your grandma.


From tight poodle perms to the popular big hair spiral perms, they were all the rage for a good while.


Just thinking about perms brings back memories of hours spent sitting with those plastic rods wrapped tight in my hair and the nauseating chemical smell of the permanent wave solution. Bleh.

The perms of today, however, are much different than what we remember, or so I hear.



Instead of the super tight curls the new perms will offer looser locks and beachy type waves as seen above.

80s Perm Ad


Personally, I don't think I'll be getting a perm... I'll just use foam rollers or some other type of curler to get the look with out the commitment.

How about you? Do you still get perms? Considering it?

If you love your perm, show us!


Easy and Cheap Spring Floral Easter Egg Wreath



Spring Easter Wreath


Spring is coming up and Easter is right around the corner so I thought I'd share a little Easter egg wreath I made the other day.

It was pretty easy to make - if I can do it, just about anyone can... And cheap, too (about $7)

Gotta LOVE Dollar Tree!

It's amazing what you can come up with when you make a trip to Dollar Tree. I adore that store (made a rhyme, heh). I feel like I'm rich there because I can put anything I want in my cart and don't even have to worry about the price. ;) Ha! That never happens ANYWHERE else, believe me.

Anyway, I actually had plans on making a larger wreath with full size pink and purple plastic eggs but I found these smaller (about 2 inch) eggs... 24 in a pack, so I decided to give it a go and make a more colorful, floral Easter wreath.

These are VERY easy to make and it took about an hour from start to finish to create this one.

Here's what you'll need:


  • Floral Foam Ring. This one is about 10 inches.
  • 4 bunches of artificial flowers. I used pink and purple lilacs.
  • 2 Bags of 24 Count plastic eggs, the smaller size, roughly 2 inches. I used 32 for this Easter wreath.
  • Crepe Party Streamers in whatever color you'd like, I chose pink.
  • Glue gun (not pictured)
  • Scissors


First, you'll want to wrap the foam ring with the streamer paper and secure with hot glue.


Wrap it all the way around to provide a nice, smooth base to glue on the plastic eggs. When you're finished it will look something like this...


Apply a nice amount of hot glue to a plastic egg making sure the glue covers the seam where the egg opens and closes (so it won't pop open after you glue it on)
Press it on top of the foam ring and hold it for a minute until its secured in place. Don't worry about which way you glue the eggs on. I glued mine on every which way and it turned out fine.
Repeat the process until you have the whole ring covered.


Once you're done with the top, move to the inner circle of the wreath and glue more eggs around the inside. Be sure the ring is laying on a flat surface as you add the inner ring of eggs.



Next pull the tops of the bunches of flowers free from the long stem. Add hot glue to the separated stem with the flowers and insert between each gap between the eggs around the upper portion of the wreath.



Fill in all around the wreath as shown. Be sure to hold each bunch of flowers down for a minute or so until the glue begins to dry.



As you can see above, the stems are pretty visible between the plastic eggs, and not so pretty, so pop some individual flowers off the remaining stems and glue them in various places to camouflage the gaps and stems.


And here you go, a simple, cheap wreath. It cost about $7 total to make and I had some stuff left over.



If I make another one, I might buy one more bunch of lilacs to fill in gaps and make it a little fuller but it's not necessary at all.

This would be a great project to make with the kids but be careful with that dang hot glue gun. I have to admit I'm probably not the craftiest person but I'm REALLY good at getting glue everywhere, including my fingers (ouch).

Sooo, give it a go and be sure to share your finished wreath. I'd love to see what you come up with. =)

5 Ways We Can Choose to Be More Grateful


I'm not sure how many of you are like me, but I've been doing some soul searching and have found out I still take a lot for granted. Not to say I don't appreciate what I have, but I'm sure I could be a little more thankful for all the good things I have in my life.  I've been keeping a gratitude journal for a while and almost every day I write down things I'm thankful for, but still, I need to be more appreciative of the small things.

Upon realizing this, I decided to write down how I could go about embracing gratitude and thought I'd share it with you...

1. Acknowledge that being grateful is a decision

We have to choose to be grateful, there's no way around it. Being happy doesn't immediately cause gratitude to magically happen - sort of, it's the other way around - the more we're thankful for the things we have in life the happier we'll be.

So, being grateful is very much a choice we have to make for ourselves. No one can give it to us, we can't purchase it. We have to realize we're blessed with an amazing life that so many people would love to have. And as sobering as it is, I also realize there are people who didn't get to live to see today... I'm incredibly grateful I woke up this morning. Aren't you?

2. Appreciate the little things

Sometimes it's so easy to take things for granted just because they're sweet little bits of life that we've so grown accustomed to. Things like the ability to turn on a faucet and have clean water, having a warm pair of gloves to put on when we're going out into the cold... just little things that we probably don't give much thought but know that there are people out there who aren't so blessed. Remember to count all your blessings, even the very small ones.

3. Stop focusing on what you don't have

This has always been huge for me. Now, I'm not telling you to settle for what you have, shut your face and just be content, nah, not at all. What I am saying is that although it's great to strive for more don't lose sight of all that you're currently blessed with.

4. Take a good look at the world around you

This world is filled with people who are less fortunate. It's so easy to forget they exist and hyper focus on our little problems. Sometimes some of us may even think that their issues aren't our problem so why be concerned? I'm here to burst your bubble if that's what you think because it sure doesn't work that way. Everything and everyone in this world affects everything and everyone else in some way. We might not immediately realize the connection but it's there. We're all linked together, like it or not. Don't allow yourself to become self-centered and live in a vacuum. Break out of your comfort zone and walk a mile in someone else's shoes. Enrich your life by learning their stories, their struggles, their wants, needs, and how what you've been blessed with compares to what they have.

You know, it's funny how some of the most grateful folks are the ones who have the least, material wise. Ponder that for a while.

5. Imagine yourself with less

Write down some of the things you're thankful for and then imagine those things being taken away from you. Really let yourself feel the emotions of losing the things you cherish, big and small. Then allow yourself to feel the joy of each of those things being reintroduced into your life. For instance, imagine waking up one day having lost your eyesight. How difficult would it be for you to make your way around your home? Think about no longer being able to see the faces of the people you love. All those little things that are connected to your vision that you take for granted - gone. Dwell in those emotions for a while and then imagine suddenly regaining your sight. How joyful would you be to be able to see the beautiful colors of a sunset again? Or to see the beautiful, smiling eyes of your best friend?

All of these things can shift your focus from what you don't have to all the little things that add up to big things. Life doesn't have to be perfect in order for us to be grateful. It's an absolute choice.

Choose to be grateful. Our happiness depends on it.

Don't Let Fear Hold You Back! Learn to take baby steps toward success.





 Recently, I decided to go back to a business that I was an associate with back in the 90s. Even back then I knew Watkins was a solid opportunity but I let so many things (mainly fear of failure) stand in my way of success. First of all, for those who aren't familiar, Watkins is a more than 145 year old company offering a variety of products for life and home that are top quality. They also offer a business opportunity that allows you to choose your own hours and offers the flexible kind of lifestyle so many people desire.

One thing that everyone has to learn with Watkins is that an important part of success with the company is simply using their products in your own home. If you don't use something, become familiar with it, truly love that product, it's going to be more difficult to get others excited about trying it. Besides how can you sell something you can't stand behind?

If you visited the top Chevy dealer in your area and saw the owner drive home in a Ford, what would that make you think?

Would you buy hair growth tonic from a bald man?

Wouldn't you think twice about buying weight loss products from a morbidly obese salesperson?

Exactly. What's even worse, if you aren't a user of your own products, after a while you're no longer going to care about the business because you won't be passionate about what you're doing.

  The same goes for personal development. You can read and listen all you want about different ways to improve your life but until you start practicing those things and going through the steps of making your life better, you probably won't have success.

Sure, you can absorb all that information but if your idea is to absorb it for later use "when it's more convenient" then you've got the wrong idea.

Why put off what you can start right now? Even if you just take baby steps toward improving yourself and your life why not start today? Do something every day that gets you excited... maybe even a little scared. Stop trying to be so careful about everything and just do.

  Back to the Watkins thing for a minute... I was trying so hard way back when to do things perfectly that I didn't give it my all. I now realize I was being too careful. I was worried that if I didn't know everything about every single product I would make a fool of myself.

Watkins offers over 300 products and I thought I needed to learn every detail about each product before I could be successful? How foolish I was!

The key to being successful isn't complete and total knowledge, it's being able to share the excitement and enthusiasm you have for even just one product that you love.

That's right, even just ONE!

When you're passionate about something it just shows and then you can use that to your advantage.

  So whether it's passion for a new business venture (or rekindled passion for an old one), or making your life the best possible through personal development, you need to be passionate about what you're doing, don't just read about what you should be doing - DO what you should be doing to get to where you want to be.

Baby steps... take small steps along the way. Don't feel like conditions have to be perfect before you get started because there will be no perfect time. Finding others who will support you 100% is another great way to be successful.

In the same way as the training site associated with J.R. Watkins, Timeless Integrity, supports its members with conference calls, a free prospecting website filled with all sorts of training materials, added incentives,etc. YOU need to seek out those who support you all the way in your journey. Believe in yourself enough to surround yourself with others who believe in you as well!

So in summary,
  • Don't let fear hold you back
  • Do what you need to do. Don't put it off!
  • Take baby steps but take steps! Don't stand still.
  • Don't worry about doing things exactly right or waiting for the perfect time.
  • Find support. Be your own best cheerleader!
  • Believe in yourself!

Confession Time! It's good for the soul =)

I have an embarrassing confession to make. 

I don't have a business page.

There, I said it. I admit it! I don't have my own website or even a Facebook page to promote my work. I'm always giving advice to other folks about how great Facebook is because of the ads, insights, etc. and I don't even practice what I preach. I mean, I do have the Shabby Chic Wedding Ideas page, but that's basically a hobby page which will eventually have a companion website. 

I think the most difficult part of starting a page is that I'm a freelancer. I don't have one specific job title. I can do some copywriting: I do business and product name consultations, I can create taglines and provide a variety of other services but I'm not sure how to market what I do when I haven't exactly defined what it is that I do. Make sense? ;) Not to mention, I'm so busy doing for others I haven't had time to really create something for myself. Sad really.

This all comes back to my ADHD and the whole Renaissance Soul thing I blogged about before. My thoughts are so scattered sometimes and the only time I can focus is when I hyper-focus, like when I really delve into a project for someone and work so hard to make it just right for them. I have so many projects going at once that my own wants and needs get put on a back burner and everyone and everything else comes first.

Having been a student of Family and Consumer Science, I see this mostly as a time management issue. I know how to manage my time quite well, but something in my brain doesn't mesh with that idea. Just because we "know" how to do something doesn't mean we CAN always do it the way we want to. I had a therapist once tell me that I'm a perfectionist. I laughed because my life, at the time, was a complete and total mess and I rarely finished ANYTHING. He said that was part of being a perfectionist sometimes. He told me that if I didn't think I could complete something perfectly to my satisfaction, I didn't even bother but it wasn't that I could ignore it because it would still eat away at me. He had a point because this is exactly how I am. I would love for everything to be perfect but when I start a project, I want to know it's going to turn out exactly the way I want it. 

I've had this problem with clients in the past as well. They come to me wanting work done, or needing help and I do everything I can but it's almost like we don't click and I'm trying to get them more involved with the project, trying to get feedback, etc. and they respond like limp noodles. It's like KNOCK, KNOCK... nobody's homeee!! Then I get frustrated because I need their input and there's like a dark cloud hanging over the project until I can inspire them to participate. I still complete the job, of course, but I feel it would be so much better to have them collaborate with me. After all, it is THEIR business or product name, website, product descriptions, sales letter, etc. that I'm working so hard on. 

But back to the "not having a page for my work" thing. This is my goal for the next few months. Before the end of the year, I  WILL have a page dedicated to what I do. Even if I don't have any idea exactly what to call myself... I'm going to have a page and it's going to be great. I'm going to pour some of the energy I use for my clients into my OWN project. It doesn't have to be perfect, it just has to be. There's no such thing as perfection anyway, right? =)